Question Tuesday: Summer Blockbusters

Summer is The Season (of weddings), but it is often also the season of a lot of great box office hits. What movies are you looking forward to this summer?

Here’s a few “now playing” I’d like to see:

Tim Burton’s Dark Shadows. I have to admit, this isn’t usually my style, but I saw the previews, and it looks hilarious.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel: Its star-studded cast of British favourites says it all.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Can you believe I still haven’t seen The Avengers? Well, I’m looking to remedy that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Finally, I love me some claymation, and Sony’s The Pirates! Band of Misfits is just the thing to help me get my fix.

 

 

What about you? What are you anticipating this season?

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Flashback Friday: Emergents, Evangelicals, and Other Labels

I came across this today: A Lost Parable: “The Sugar of the Earth” and it reminded me of this:

“The Pharisee and the Publican”

The Pharisee stood and was praying to himself:
“God, I thank you that I am not like other people:
Emergents,
Democrats,
Anyone who isn’t just like me…
Or even like this Tax Collector.
I don’t fast.
And I don’t tithe.
But at least I don’t have tattoos or care about social justice.”

Then the Tax Collector,
standing quite some distance away,
prayed to himself:
“God, I thank you that I am not like other people:
Evangelicals,
Conservatives,
Anyone who isn’t just like me…
Or even like this Pharisee.
I don’t fast.
And I don’t tithe.
But at least I don’t drive an SUV or believe the Bible is actually true.”

And no one’s prayer was heard.
And the light was covered.
And the salt lost its saltiness.

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“What church do you go to and why?”

Hi there, I’m a pro golfer who is moving to Dallas next year. I am trying to find a good church and surround myself with good young Christian people. I have followed your Probe articles and I like your deep knowledge of the Bible and I would like to attend a similar church. Do you have any recommendations please? And can you tell me about your recommendations?

I was over last year and popped into Watermark Community Church because I’ve been listening to Todd Wagner and Jonathan Pokluda on podcast and absolutely love them. I don’t care about the denomination as long as they have good strict doctrine and have a lot of young people I can meet. Are there any other churches similar to Watermark? What church do you go to and why?

Thanks, Stephen.

 

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If you like the preaching at Watermark, and the size doesn’t intimidate you, you’ll probably want to investigate their life groups. It’s the only way to really get plugged in there. Three of our staff are members at Watermark, and what they love about it is what everyone I know at Watermark loves about it: the church’s emphasis on the freedom found in community and confession. Next time you visit Watermark, let me know, and I’ll hook you up with my colleague Paul.

The closest thing to Watermark will be The Village Church. I believe the original campus is located in Flower Mound (a half hour or so outside of Dallas), but they have a satellite campus (where local church-goers get a live feed of Chandler) in Dallas. Lots of young Christians love Matt Chandler’s pull-no-punches preaching style.

I attend Christ Church Plano (a northern suburb of Dallas). Christ Church is the best of both worlds for me because it’s Anglican and evangelical. I grew up in a Bible church which finds its home base in Dallas Theological Seminary. I loved being there as a teenager, and when I went to university, I was astounded at how little other students who grew up in church knew about the Bible and the way preachers would take Scripture out of context in some of the churches I visited. But while I came to appreciate the emphasis on exposition I grew up with, I was also introduced to “high church” liturgy during my university years. I fell in love.

Liturgy, for me, provides a richer, fuller worship experience. In non-liturgical services, I often feel like a disembodied soul. Sermons would engage and stimulate my mind (and sometimes heart) and music would touch my heart (and sometimes mind), but when they didn’t, the service would be… essentially a bust. That’s a lot of pressure on the teaching pastor and the worship minister. And that kind of environment is perfect for creating superstar pastors like Chuck Swindoll, Francis Chan, Tony Evans, and Matt Chandler. Not that those guys aren’t great preachers; they are, but for me I need something besides a great sermon. I need embodied habits to prepare my heart and mind for worship: kneeling in prayer each week, taking communion each week, crossing myself as a reminder that I belong to the cross… I’m a visual and hands-on learner anyway, so it’s really helpful for me.

I also appreciate that the Anglican tradition values the aesthetics: art and architecture and classical choral music, for example. The choir can bring me to tears singing a requiem in Latin though I don’t understand any of the words; art speaks to that part of us which is more moved by evocation than elucidation; and this too prepares my whole self to respond to God.

Christ Church is also evangelical. So personal faith—Bible study, discipleship, and so on—is valued as well. They make a point to emphasize the meaning behind the motions. And along with the choir, there’s a contemporary praise band too; so again, it’s often the best of both worlds (and admittedly, sometimes the worst of both worlds too.:)

[For more on why I like liturgy, check out my post over at Thinking through Christianity: "The Importance of Liturgy."]

Hope that helps!
Renea

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“I have a boyfriend who is sweet but…”

I have a boyfriend that is sweet but his verbal words hurt I’ve been with him for almost 3 yrs now I’m not aloud to have friends and he is always tryin to have threesome. It happened once and now he doesn’t stop talkin about it, calling me a retard or a whore. My son is 2 and is startin to yell at me the same way. I feel like I’m failing as a mom. It’s hard, I have no help from any family, I’m on my own. I really just need advice I’m at my wit’s end. My son is all I got and I don’t want him to talk to me like that.

I’m saddened, and angered, by your story. Not sad because of, or angry at, you, but your boyfriend. I’m angry, as you should be, because if what you’ve said here is true, the way he treats you is not the way a friend or boyfriend is supposed to treat you. If he acts sweetly toward you at times, but does not respect you (by pressuring you to engage in sexual acts you don’t feel comfortable doing, then demeaning you for doing them), he is not being sweet, merely manipulative. He’s just pretending to be sweet so that you will do what he wants. If he loved you, he would honor you as the smart, strong, beautiful woman you are rather than trying to turn you into someone you’re not: for you are not a retard and you are not a whore. Your boyfriend wants to turn you into someone he can control and manipulate, someone he can make weak so that he can feel strong.

You need to get out. Leave him. If you can’t leave him for your self, leave him for the sake of your sweet son; take charge of your life for your son’s sake. I’m not a professional counselor; if you can get it, counseling will help you more than I can. Perhaps you should contact your local women’s shelter.

From my heart,
Renea

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